How To Convince Your Boyfriend To Wait For s*x?

Well, the day has been kinda boring, so i thought i should publish this article on boyfriends waiting for s*x. The girl usually has to take the decision on when she would allow s*x in the relationship. Guys are more than willing to Be Intimate on the first date itself, so it’s up to the girl to make up her mind on when to go for it. It’s important that the decision is whole hearted and that you don’t give in to any pressure from the guy.

Some girls end up Being Intimate with their guy just because she feels she should not “hurt” him. That’s a wrong notion because most guys are quite “okay” if the girl does not want to Be Intimate, they just feel a little frustrated but that’s not really a bad thing. The guy is going to respect you when he realizes that you are a “no nonsense” girl when it comes to drawing a line on when the relationship can get intimate.

A relationship needs to be balanced and “resentment” free. If you feel that you have to give in to your boyfriend’s demands or pressure that would indicate that you are creating an “imbalance” in the relationship because you are being submissive, and that can get very unhealthy for you in the long run. If your boyfriend is acting too needy and petulant about Being Intimate, it would indicate that there is a hollowness to the relationship you share with him – after all s*x is but a small aspect of close relationship.

Tips To Consider

So what if your boyfriend is insisting on Being Intimate, how do you convince him to wait? Here are few tips:

Let Him Know That You Are Not Ready
You don’t have to be apologetic or timid about it, just let him know in no uncertain tone that you need some more time before you allow for such a level of intimacy. Tell him that Being Intimate will take the relationship to a different level and you want to be sure that you are emotionally ready for it.

If there is even the slightest of resistance in you, it implies that deep down you are not sure or that your intuition is warning you against it. Pay heed to this intuition and stand firm by your decision.

Assure Him That Denial Is Not A Reflection Of A Lack Of Love
Your boyfriend will question you if you are in love with him or not when you deny him s*x. It’s quite a norm for guys to use the tool of “emotional” pressure, so he is bound to get a little cross with you and demand to know if the reason why you are denying s*x is because you are unsure of the relationship. You will need to convince him quite sweetly that this is not the case and that the relationship means a lot to you.

You can tell your guy that you are waiting for the relationship to mature in terms of emotional bonding and closeness before you take it to the next level.

Get Him To See This From Your Perspective
A girl might feel hesitant about engaging in s*x early in the relationship because she feels that the guy might treat her differently once he gets physical with her. There are many instances when a guy’s attitude changes completely once he feels he has “scored” with the girl, this also leads to hollow relationships. Guys also tend to label a girl as an “easy” lay if she agrees to Be Intimate within a few dates.

Nice thread. Women should respect their virginity and help close their leg there are not doors. And for men, they should help respect the virginity of we ladies pre-marital s*x hurts us like hell especially when we are not ready for it

Queen wrote:Nice thread. Women should respect their virginity and help close their leg there are not doors. And for men, they should help respect the virginity of we ladies pre-marital s*x hurts us like hell especially when we are not ready for it

Abeg help tell them. Most guys thinks say s*x na everything in life.

I can't agree at this point. See some of this girls are cheats. They will tell to wait before marriage but they can't wait themselves. They will be having s*x with some other guy maybe who they had covenant with or a guy they really loves and cares for. And you, you will only be a sponsor and at the end they will dump you.

If you can wait till marriage before you have s*x with me, then don't accept me when I ask you out. If you in anyway accept, then everything must be enjoyed

Gunshot wrote:I can't agree at this point. See some of this girls are cheats. They will tell to wait before marriage but they can't wait themselves. They will be having s*x with some other guy maybe who they had covenant with or a guy they really loves and cares for. And you, you will only be a sponsor and at the end they will dump you.

If you can wait till marriage before you have s*x with me, then don't accept me when I ask you out. If you in anyway accept, then everything must be enjoyed

If there was in anyway one can dislike post I will blind fold myself and dilike this your post.
But you most know that s*x is not love and trust no matter how many s*x you have per day you will still be were you are.

Geaty wrote:

Gunshot wrote:I can't agree at this point. See some of this girls are cheats. They will tell to wait before marriage but they can't wait themselves. They will be having s*x with some other guy maybe who they had covenant with or a guy they really loves and cares for. And you, you will only be a sponsor and at the end they will dump you.

If you can wait till marriage before you have s*x with me, then don't accept me when I ask you out. If you in anyway accept, then everything must be enjoyed

If there was in anyway one can dislike post I will blind fold myself and dilike this your post.
But you most know that s*x is not love and trust no matter how many s*x you have per day you will still be were you are.

Oh! you go even be satisfied?

I dey laugh for this kind thread. s*x or no s*x life must be enjoyed. My own be say if my gal talk say she no want am make no give am to another guy because if I find out. I will kidnap her and I promise with every thing in me I Will keep on rapping her until I am satified.

Geaty wrote:

Gunshot wrote:I can't agree at this point. See some of this girls are cheats. They will tell to wait before marriage but they can't wait themselves. They will be having s*x with some other guy maybe who they had covenant with or a guy they really loves and cares for. And you, you will only be a sponsor and at the end they will dump you.

If you can wait till marriage before you have s*x with me, then don't accept me when I ask you out. If you in anyway accept, then everything must be enjoyed

If there was in anyway one can dislike post I will blind fold myself and dilike this your post.
But you most know that s*x is not love and trust no matter how many s*x you have per day you will still be were you are.

I don't even care how many dislike you give me. But I have just spoken my mind and that is all.

If you can wait till marriage before you have s*x with me, then don't accept me when I ask you out. If you in anyway accept, then everything must be enjoyed

Gunshot wrote:

Geaty wrote:

Gunshot wrote:I can't agree at this point. See some of this girls are cheats. They will tell to wait before marriage but they can't wait themselves. They will be having s*x with some other guy maybe who they had covenant with or a guy they really loves and cares for. And you, you will only be a sponsor and at the end they will dump you.
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If there was in anyway one can dislike post I will blind fold myself and dilike this your post.
But you most know that s*x is not love and trust no matter how many s*x you have per day you will still be were you are.

I don't even care how many dislike you give me. But I have just spoken my mind and that is all.

If you can wait till marriage before you have s*x with me, then don't accept me when I ask you out. If you in anyway accept, then everything must be enjoyed

Guy, do you know you not just a wicked being but you are as well a monster. No marriage no s*x

Chatter wrote:I dey laugh for this kind thread. s*x or no s*x life must be enjoyed. My own be say if my gal talk say she no want am make no give am to another guy because if I find out. I will kidnap her and I promise with every thing in me I Will keep on rapping her until I am satified.

Girls are just raising their shoulders so high when ever it is said that they should not have s*x with guys. But here is the main point the goes with girls.

They are the most people that enjoys s*x

s*x and marriage are sacred which is meant to be done only by married people


THOU SHALL NOT FORNICATE

I wouldn't say s*x is bad or good because I'm already in the game. But, what matters here is what you agree with your patter. If your girl says no let it be no for you. If she says yes let it be yes for. In anyway you two have agreed just make sure you corporate.

Girls are just raising their shoulders so high when ever it is said that they should not have s*x with guys. But here is the main point the goes with girls.

They are the most people that enjoys s*x

nice post

Some boys dey vex hahah

Some boys dey vex hahah

Some boys dey vex hahah

who dey vex gold?

All I know is that girls always claim they hate doing it but they love it more than the boys

All I know is that girls always claim they hate doing it but they love it more than the boys